Thing is, I hate being lied to and things being kept from me. I would rather be told something and it hurt my feelings than be lied to or something being kept from me. It shows lack of trust and that hurts more than anything.
As much as the news killed me yesterday and I just wanted to forget about it. I cared too much about the person to just shut them out. I am a pretty forgiving person when it comes to some things. Under the circumstances I could understand why they wouldn't want to tell me, but it just hurt.
How is there supposed to be strength in relationships when things are being kept from each other. Friendships, boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, and even marriages. Its not just the intimate kind of relationships that can get ruined, friendships can go down the drain too. I can't stand it when people avoid the truth because they don't want to hurt someone's feelings, you know what?! THEY MIGHT NEED IT. Ugh. Shit like that is what pisses me off.
Don't get me wrong, I am still pissed off and hurt, but I a lot about the person to just shut them out.
My rant for the day -_-
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